Meet Laura - our newest doula! We first met Laura in August and we’ve been smitten ever since! You see, Laura is a type of grounding person you that puts you immediately at ease and you just know deep in your bones that whatever you tell her, she’ll never judge you and will find a way to support you, no matter what. Find out more about Laura below:
WHAT DREW YOU TO PERINATAL WORK?
For the past 12 years I was actually in the world of theatre. I was confident for my teenage years that I was only going to be an actor, and nothing else. Eventually, I found that acting was not very fulfilling. I constantly felt nervous about what my body looked like. There is a lot of body shaming, and a lot of sexism in the industry. I was tired of feeling both self centered, and self conscious all the time. I realized that I wanted to make an impact not by how I looked like, but what I did to help others in times of vulnerability and change. I was always someone that worked well in a crisis, and I have always found birth fascinating. The more I started researching the role of a doula, and the more I learned about artists who were also doulas, I was confident this was the right fit. The training with DONA International was incredible, and after the first birth I went to I knew it was where I belonged!
IF YOU WEREN'T A PERINATAL SUPPORT WORKER WHAT WOULD YOUR ALTERNATE JOB BE?
Great question. I still do love writing and creating pieces of art, but I also know down the line I would like to be a midwife. So possibly a midwife who also writes books, and creates performance art...? Let's say that!
WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU WERE IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL?
Either a nurse or an actor. I'm not a nurse, but I think I got pretty close to my childhood goals!
IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD TOMORROW WHERE WOULD YOU GO?
Every year I try to go camping in Wisconsin. It seems like I should be picking Paris, or somewhere in Africa, but honestly the forests and water there is absolutely breathtaking. I'm a big camper, and I would take a tent over a fancy hotel any day!
WHAT WOULD THE PERFECT OFF-CALL DAY LOOK LIKE FOR YOU?
Oooo, this is a great question. First off I would get a ridiculous amount of sleep. I would wake up on a sunny afternoon, and meet some friends in a park to catch up, and rant about how great it is to be a doula. The night would be complete with my friends and I splitting a bottle of wine, and singing folk songs slightly off key.
WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE THING (OR TWO) THAT YOU HAVE NO GUILT ABOUT INDULGING IN?
Smartfood popcorn. It's bliss.
Name one thing...
…YOU LEARNED THE HARD WAY ABOUT BIRTH EARLY IN YOUR DOULA CAREER:
Ooo I learned that early labour can last days and days. One time I took the whole day off expecting to run to the hospital, but it was just me waiting around in my home for a full day before I was needed. Birth is just as unpredictable as everyone says!
... YOU LOOK BACK ON IN YOUR LIFE THAT MAKES YOU FEEL PROUD:
Honestly I would say switching careers to become a doula! It was scary, and it took a lot of thought, but I've never been happier.
... THAT USUALLY SURPRISES PEOPLE ABOUT YOU:
I ate my first orange 2 years ago. As a child they scared me. Not sure why. I love them by the way.
... THAT'S ALWAYS IN YOUR FRIDGE OR PANTRY:
Smartfood popcorn. Did I mention that it is bliss? It is.
What is your favourite...
Green. Green. Green.
Bernese mountain dogs. Also turtles.
Summer. Can't stand winter.
You can always find me at Voodoo Child by Kensington Market!
When Survivors Give Birth! It's a very heavy read but it opened my eyes to the importance of trauma informed care.